Relationships...Realtionships. Is marriage and relationshships just another institution to make money? Think about it. When the economy is down, people will still spend money on things they want. Marriage has got to be a trillion dollar institute. Putting that aside; isn't the wedding band just a smaller shackle? Why do we wear it? To show that we are taken. BUT shouldn't a good trusting relationship not need wedding bands. Now, I am only complaining because I'm irritated. My husband, *rolling eyes*, hardly ever wears his. He says he can't wear it to work, which I believe(with his job he would lose a finger). However, he hardly even wears it any other time. Now, this wouldn't bother me, except when I forget to wear mine, WELL you would think the world was ending. Moving on...
Marriage. Is it not an institution such as education, or any other sort. AND isn't the wedding band another form of restriction? Don't get me wrong, I had a wedding, and I wear my band; I was just thinking is all. That's it, I just wanted to put my thought out there.
Friday, February 5, 2010
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Flo's assistant!!
So, I posted my video to become Flo's assistant for the progressive commercial!! I need everyones help to view the video and vote for me!! I think it would be an absolute blast to be in a commercial!! Please help everyone!!
http://www.helpflo.com/video_detail/?contentid=7867815542392585838
THANK YOU!!!!!
http://www.helpflo.com/video_detail/?contentid=7867815542392585838
THANK YOU!!!!!
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
All shapes and sizes
Wanna hear a fun useless fact? I know that almost all women go through this. You wake up look in the mirror and your like Damn, and you just feel ugly. I always love it when my friends who are obviously skinnier than me are like, ugh I am so fat(about themselves). Then they tell me how they think I have a cute shape. Whatever ladies, I love you but your full of bullshit. Now, don't get me wrong I'm not huge. I lie about my height but not my weight. I am not skinny. My doctor says I am over weight. I am about 5'3.5 (at least let me have the .5!!), I always will tell you I am 5'5 or 5'6 though. That's a lie. I always try to stand on my tippy toes at the doctors office just to give me a little more height! Ha. I weigh about 163 lbs. I am suppose to weigh I think like 135-155. BUT I like my size, sometimes. I wish I could have a stomach like Pink's with a donk, and my boobs. For those of you who don't know, a Donk is a big bubble butt, think along the lines of being able to sit a bottle of shampoo on your butt with it leaning against your back, walk and it stay...that's a donk. My ideal shape is probably not going to happen. So, anyways, I am in one of the mood kicks where I feel like I need to shape up. MAINLY because we are moving near LA (Cali), and I have heard those girls look like barbies. I don't want to be skinny...so I am on a mission to try my hardest to have or at least get close to the flat tummy, big butt, and keep the boobs size. I wanna keep the curves but tone up and drop a little weight(think like 10-15 lbs) to get into my healthy weight range. SOOOOO..I have decided to try this Hydroxycut Advance. It is my second day, and I am only doing 1 pill 2x a day. I got the jitters like a crack head, and heartburn, but other than that it's good. LoL. So, I will try to keep you informed about this little Hydroxy challenge. I guess I should post a before pic...*sigh*. Fine, but don't be mean people!! This is my hubbilybub and I at our wedding 08/01/2009! I just wish we could all feel beautiful, but thanks to the media with the FAD being skinny....that will probably not be for a while. If I would've been born around Marilyn Monroe's time, I wouldn't be so thick in societies eyes. Marilyn I believe was a size 14, which I figure is about a 8-10 now. That is a woman, versus a size 0-1 of the models now.
Random
Hello to anyone interested! I just want to share my thoughts. I have always been like, "Hey, want to hear a fun useless fact?", and that's how I start to share anything random. I figure it gives people a proper warning of what my mind is getting ready to throw at them. So, Hey wanna hear a fun useless fact?
I'm almost done with my BS degree, and am super excited to just be finished! However, my goal is to go to dental school. Now this shouldn't be a problem, at least it wouldn't be for a man. Here let me explain:
1. To go to dental school, I would have to join the military to fund it. I can't afford that amount without going Navy or Airforce.
2. I am married to a Marine, so we would be a part for the time I was in school. (4 years)
--With the military he doesn't have the option to be near me UNLESS my school is near where he will be stationed. That is just how the military works.
3. I waited to go to college, so by the time I graduate dental school I would be pushing 31ish. That is not old...at all!! BUT..I wanted to have my first child before 30, and if I go to school..not gonna happen.
4. If I go military there is a good chance I will get deployed, and worse case is I could die.
I'm not a pessimist...but hey this is a big deal to me.
So here is my rant and rave!! With being a woman sometimes we feel like we have to chose between our family or our career. Luckily, I have a wonderful husband who supports me. I still feel guilty about not having kids right out the gate. My mom calls me to remind me that she is not getting any younger and she would like to be able to enjoy her grandkids. GEESH! I want a career, and have the option to give my child a secure future. Now all I hear on T.V. is "women will lose 90% of their eggs by 30". Great, so if I have complications when I finish dental school...then it is all my fault that I waited, and it will make me feel like I chose my career over family.
Men never have to go through this. They don't have to push to have kids, if the tools work they can have kids up until the day they die. Even with the progress women have made we are still held back by our own personal shackles. We still feel like we have to provide a family, healthy children. AND if we don't, well then we are failures for what we were created for. I hesitate with any choices in life. I've learned from past experiences to ALWAYS LOOK..always. So, I am trying to figure out what to do. I have no idea.
I'm almost done with my BS degree, and am super excited to just be finished! However, my goal is to go to dental school. Now this shouldn't be a problem, at least it wouldn't be for a man. Here let me explain:
1. To go to dental school, I would have to join the military to fund it. I can't afford that amount without going Navy or Airforce.
2. I am married to a Marine, so we would be a part for the time I was in school. (4 years)
--With the military he doesn't have the option to be near me UNLESS my school is near where he will be stationed. That is just how the military works.
3. I waited to go to college, so by the time I graduate dental school I would be pushing 31ish. That is not old...at all!! BUT..I wanted to have my first child before 30, and if I go to school..not gonna happen.
4. If I go military there is a good chance I will get deployed, and worse case is I could die.
I'm not a pessimist...but hey this is a big deal to me.
So here is my rant and rave!! With being a woman sometimes we feel like we have to chose between our family or our career. Luckily, I have a wonderful husband who supports me. I still feel guilty about not having kids right out the gate. My mom calls me to remind me that she is not getting any younger and she would like to be able to enjoy her grandkids. GEESH! I want a career, and have the option to give my child a secure future. Now all I hear on T.V. is "women will lose 90% of their eggs by 30". Great, so if I have complications when I finish dental school...then it is all my fault that I waited, and it will make me feel like I chose my career over family.
Men never have to go through this. They don't have to push to have kids, if the tools work they can have kids up until the day they die. Even with the progress women have made we are still held back by our own personal shackles. We still feel like we have to provide a family, healthy children. AND if we don't, well then we are failures for what we were created for. I hesitate with any choices in life. I've learned from past experiences to ALWAYS LOOK..always. So, I am trying to figure out what to do. I have no idea.
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